Man, That is Autistic!

Autism, Dhuha 26 Dec 2011

Dhuha is how I’ve always known her and to me, at least, that is normal. She is herself. She is my Dhuha.

Most of the time, I fail to see that any of her behaviour is abnormal, even if that behaviour is disruptive. However, there are times when I think, “Man, that is autistic!”.

Reminders of Autism

Dhuha comes down for breakfast. I give her a bowl of cereal. Suddenly, she jumps up, runs and puts the slightly out-of-place sugar container back to its perfect position. She then runs back to her seat and eats her food.

Abdurrahman is playing a game with one of the doors. He wants it closed. Dhuha dislikes the door being closed and forces it open. Abdurrahman is shouting at her to stop it and she is screaming at him. He hits her. She holds the door open.

As soon as Dhuha woke up, I changed her nappy. After a half an hour, Zahira changes her nappy again. Ten minutes later, it looks like she needs to be changed again. Zahira checks her and discovers that she doesn’t need changed, she’s stuffed four toy cars down her pants.

The joys of autism.

Abdullah Abdurrahman Autism Dhuha The Joys of Autism Zahira

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Abdullah

I am Abu Sabah Abdullah Al-Amreeki, a revert to Islam from Christianity, a husband to my beautiful wife, a father to my amazing children, an aspiring daiee and a wannabe Web developer.

5 Comments

Stranded
December 27, 2011 at 1:42 am

Assalam alekum!

I know right? Khaled saw a tiny thumbnail of a video clip on the computer. A form was visible just from wasit to knees. One thumbnail among dozens in my videos folder. He points to it and says thats a Megan. He recognized his therapist…the attention to detail and instant visual recognition. You wonder what he sees and how he sees it and how fast his brain computes certain things with focus and clarity. Took me a few seconds to catch on…

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Abdullah
December 27, 2011 at 11:32 am

Wa Alaykum Salaam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu,

It is amazing. InshaAllah, one day Khaled will be able to explain to you exactly how he sees the world.

How about this:

Dhuha goes to the kitchen and unravels all of the kitchen towel (paper towel) onto the floor and does her best to make as big of a mess as possible before running off to put the welcome mat in its right place.

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Stranded
December 29, 2011 at 5:07 am

SubhanAllah, thats funny.

How is Dhuha with her siblings? Khaled does things for my reaction as he enjoys the humor in the situation. For eg, he deliberately opens the washroom door for the baby so she can go in there and have a go at the toilet water. It was happening constantly, but now Alhamdulillah this has subsided.
Abdullah
December 29, 2011 at 10:33 am

MashaAllah, Khaled’s plotting is more advanced than Dhuha’s. Typically, Dhuha is indifferent, or at least appears to be, with her brother and sister. However, there is a real rivalry between her and Abdurrahman.

One day Dhuha was playing with a toy and Abdurrahman was trying to get it. He followed her from room to room crying and telling her to stop. She just played normally as if he wasn’t there.

Then their grandfather tried to give him some chocolate to distract him. Dhuha saw the chocolate and wanted some. He broke it in half, giving each of them a piece. Dhuha put the toy down and quickly ate her chocolate. The boy picked the toy up. He now had one had of chocolate and one hand of toy.

Dhuha snuck up behind him and took the chocolate out of his hand, while he was still looking at the toy. She ate it and pranced happily away before he could fully react.

zenab
February 7, 2012 at 12:12 am

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